My ex is requiring for more space, can I possibly win him/her again? It may sound a little contradicting but the truth is, you CAN get your ex back by allowing him/her enough space. You see, when your ex asks for space, he/she is asking for time to heal and work through things alone. Or perhaps you’re ex wanted you to change into someone he/she desires; THUS, the best thing you can give your ex is the space he/she terribly desired.
How to win an ex back: If your ex is requesting for space, give him/her that. BUT in the meanwhile that doesn’t mean that there aren’t things you can’t do to win him/her back! What you just learned about dealing with a breakup is just the beginning.Here are 3 ways to win your ex back regardless of him/her asking for space:
Move on - Offer your ex the space that he/she wanted and move on; at least that’s what your ex needs to think. You see, individuals dread abandonment, and they also fear the unknown. Your ex will get afraid that he/she won’t find someone else who will admit him/her just the way you did and if someone will truly love him/her as much as you do, etc… so that’s really scary. By showing your ex that you’ve moved on, you are also making him/her feel like he/she is being left behind and yes, nobody wants to be left alone.
To find someone new is never a piece of cake and so your ex will just seek his/her comfort zone: you. Your ex will try to get back to you because it’s easier to do than starting all over again with someone new.
Disregard Your Ex - Your ex is asking for space, alright, but that doesn’t mean that you leave him/her alone for good. In essence, space is leaving a window of contact open; it’s your ex’s comfort zone. Your ex will find it comforting to know that somehow, you’re just around; BUT you should never show him/her that since it will only make him/her ignore you all the more. Instead, show your ex that you do not care about him/her anymore by totally cutting off contact. When your ex finds out that you have no plan in getting back with him/her then he/she will begin to question if there is actually someone new in your life, etc… This will entice your ex to come running back your door and the more he/she will think of you, the more that he/she will miss you.
Close The “Personal” Doors On Your Ex - When your ex comes back, he/she will want to find out if you are still single, and will want to know what you have been doing. You wanted to tell him/her the truth of course; but if you wanted to add a little suspense in the entire scenario just to get your ex more interested with you, avoid doing so; so that your ex will start to chase you and desire you again. This is because you had already taken away something that you made your ex experienced; something that really pushed him/her to come back to you.
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