Are you asking yourself the question, ‘Is my wife having an affair’? a good many husbands think about this very matter at some point during their marriage.

A clear indication that something is amiss is a sudden change in her behavior. If she is suddenly acting out of character, then it is clearly the time to sit up and take notice.

Another indicator is if you notice your wife, who once relied on your for everything in her life, suddenly turn independent. There may also be a lack in her attentiveness and caring for you. This may seem wonderful in the beginning but eventually the lack of concern for you can only indicate that your wife having an affair. Remember that change is normal - but only gradual change. Abrupt and unexplainable behavior modifications should be regarded as a warning sign that your marriage is on the rocks.

Secrets are held by each and every woman - but if she has too many secrets for your comfort level, you should treat that fact with concern. Most partners enjoy sharing all of the intimate details of their lives with one another. Normally, your wanting to know who they hang out with isn’t too much to ask so, if your wife exhibits signs of hiding those facts from you, you are well within your rights to be a little suspicious. A little privacy is fine, becoming overly defensive about having a separate life and friends should lead you to believe your wife is having an affair.

It becomes a matter of grave concern should you find signs of an affair. Still, you must be absolutely certain before you begin to hurl accusations at her. Bear in mind this will undoubtedly have far reaching consequences and it would not do to accuse your partner of infidelity without irrefutable evidence.

Remember that your wife could have completely logical explanations for her behavioral changes. You will have to be convinced first that her behavioral changes are as sudden as you might think and only then will you have cause to believe that your wife is having an affair.

In the end, I advise that you be tactful when you want to prove adultery

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